Shall we fall in love or orbit in love?

Love is the metaphysical gravity that holds the perfect symmetry of relationship.

To fall in love is to fall into the field of another, and in the process lose ourselves as we merge.

To orbit in love is to maintain right relationship with the other, neither too close nor too far.

If one partner’s orbit increases speed, then they might fly out of the orbit and the relationship will explode.

If one partner’s orbit decreases speed, they will indeed fall into the field and the relationship will implode with co-dependency and attachment.

To maintain a healthy dynamic in love we need to be aware of the space between us and the speed of our own travel in our relationship to our partner.

May your love orbit today express glorious symmetry.

*This is attributed to Buckminster Fuller

February 14th 2018

Photo Taken May 10th 2015