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Infected by patriarchy

Infected by patriarchy

Infected by patriarchy Yesterday we visited an archaeological site that was also a Buddhist temple. I was required to cover myself completely while Tony walked in shorts and a T-shirt. As I understand Buddhism at its Source, it is not gendered at all. I did a little...
This is Karma

This is Karma

This is Karma To take, just because. To take clean air from another because you want to smoke. To take a wave without consideration of anyone else.  To take charge by whistling for service, as if you are the king of the Universe and the service staff are there at your...
And the gods are laughing

And the gods are laughing

And the gods are laughing Just after first light we enter the surf. The routine now four days and steady. My first wave. Not fully present. Too rushed. Still dark.  I get ahead of myself. I get ahead of the wave. Over the falls I go. My board flips back and hits me...
Where are the women?

Where are the women?

Where are the women? It is rare to see women working in the front of house in hospitality in Sri Lanka. Even where we are staying, the men do the room cleaning, cooking and service. You occasionally see younger woman working behind the counter. In the traditional...
The next step

The next step

The next step All learning is a progression. Children stay the path, focused on where they are. Adults often expect to be further along the path and get frustrated when they are not. Patience plus commitment are key.  When it is time to learn the next step, it will...